How to Interview Grandparents for a Legacy Video
Ask permission twice
First ask whether they are willing to record. Then, when the camera is ready, ask again if they still feel comfortable. Consent should feel current, not assumed.
Explain who may see the recording and where it will be stored.
Keep sessions short
A long interview can be tiring. Twenty to thirty minutes is often enough, especially for older relatives or anyone managing illness.
You can always record another session. Multiple short recordings are easier to watch later than one exhausting file.
Follow the story
Prepare questions, but do not grip them too tightly. If a grandparent lights up while talking about a neighbor, a song, or a small childhood detail, follow that thread.
The best memories are often found slightly off the agenda.
Quick checklist
- Explain who will see it.
- Keep sessions short.
- Use open questions.
- Let them skip anything.
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